I'm out of order

[Devilmarkus]

Hi together,
I am out of order for a while.
I cannot say how long.
My GF decided to become lesbian

So I move my place.

See you all!

[Devilmarkus]

I forgot to tell you, what happened:
As some of you know, I had a webradio.
My GF and me made shows there.
We also had a female mod which flirted much with her and they became "friends".

Since a long time they call each other EVERY evening and talk until they sleep...

Well, for the German users some nice details:
(my GF is named "Luxuszicke", the other bitch is called "Teufelszicke")
And here some nice letters and messages:
[link removed from public]

Well...

Game Over!
Lost my game.

But... Hope in sight!

[fano]

my poor Markus , that's hard , i am sorry for you.

[Devilmarkus]

my poor Markus , that's hard , i am sorry for you.

Well, it was her descision. What should I say?
I wish them luck

[fano]

Sadly you're right 
Anyway , one lost , ten found !

[Devilmarkus]

Well yes, what are 4 years?

Will be offline soon...
Cannot tell when I have new connection.

[mr_lou]

Sorry to hear that mate. Don't know what to say in a situation like that.
But I hope everything will turn out for the better.

[robcfg]

These things are always hard, but as you cannot go backwards in time, don't think too much about it, focus on going on.


And, if you like to talk with someone, we're here for you 


Please don't stay away too long, we'll really miss you.


Viel Glück!

[Gryzor]

Oh my you are serious, aren't you? This is the sort of thing that you hear happening but you never actually see it... I sympathise, mate...

[Devilmarkus]

Wow...
1) Thank you all for your replies!
2) As we had seen yesterday, what each other would lose, we had a very long fight.
(No, no fight against each other, but an internal fight of feelings)

When my GF saw, I am packing my things and I would leave, she was totally down!
I never saw such a destroyed person 
And I always loved her!

Well, what should I say?
We both won the fight and washed this virtual online shit away!


So:
- It's easy to fell in "love" in a virtual world, when you think, you are miss-understood in your partnership.
- She flew into a virtual partnership, because this virtual partner did tell her ALL stuff she wanted to hear!
- She's back in real life now!

I also wasn't better:
When I recognized, she was changing the sides, I also took up contact to a girl I had in my "virtual life".

Damn web-feelings 

But everything is fine now!
Nobody can destroy a real love based partnership!

[ukmarkh]

Dude... that's all kinds of awesome, tell her you're ok with her sexuality as long as you get to watch. She might even let you join in 

Seriously though dude, hope things work out for the best.

[Gryzor]

I hope it all works out for the best, mate... indeed, the hardest moment (in this case, you packing up) is always the critical one, so it's nice it turned things around

Concerning her preferences... that's another issue altogether. Maybe it was something random - lots of girls get it AFAIK. But maybe - just maybe - you should keep an eye on it...?

In any case, good to have you back and happy and whole again =)

[cpc4eva]

i know this is a bit forward but may we please see some pictures :0)

[Gryzor]

...inappropriate.

[MacDeath]

Wow dude...that's so extreme.

When your partner turns on the other sex...

I mean, it's always the "I disgusted her from men" feeling...
Except that is not really you...that's the other beeyatch...


But the fact is : we can't compete with a girl (when men)...

Also if the other girl was already lesbian (most probably or else she wouldn't chase your girl), this is probably a classical routine...
she searchs for a girl unsatisfied with her man : wether justified or not...

Many girls fail to understand men actually, stating simply that we are rude stupid obsessed with sex unable to understand what deep feeling are and they tell us that WE don't understand them... That we lack the sensibility to be romantic...


But the fact is : we often understand them more than they actually understand themselves...
And they just completely fail to understand the "simple and logical" part of Man.
Also that we have feelings...that being a man if full of uncertitudes, with a lot of pression from the society.

Also that we need hobbies other than our girl. They too often want to be our only center of the world, that so egocentric...

Look : if you try to be soft, cool with her, helpfull and so on...then she treats you as a slave/unfit male and friendzones you...sort of, or use you.
Because then you are not an Alpha Male...

And if  the complete macho douchebag treating them like shit appears, that's actually what they ask for and he gets her...
"Man, you are so cocky"...
but she realises this is no good and cry the hell and leave anyway...being treated like shit most of time.

Often seen.


So she was preying on your girl  and slowly she turned her... "Virtual" relation (chat on Net) is good way actually, you feel more free to tell stuff you wouldn't when face to face.

Vicious predators...


4 years ? routine comes, uneasy to relaunch love when things get old.

And a preying lesbian is used to feminine psychology to turn this to her advantage.


Hope you'll pass through that and get better.

Also, why do YOU move ? and not her ? wow, that hurts...